WAIST BEADS YAY or NAY

After the recent WaistBead Challenge on Twitter, the curious Question Popped in my hand... Using Waist Bead as a Lady is it a thing to be admired or disdained?

The Trend of Waist bead is becoming prevalent in the society; while some people are comfortable with it, others ain't so kin on it.

From a little Opinion Poll sampled

#Fashion&Lifestyle 5 Fashion Mistakes Most Nigeria Ladies Make

LADIES WE NEED TO STOP DOING THIS Hmmm... I intend sharing a pictorial on how I did my Bantu Knots Out Last Weekend But thanks to my not so lovely sister I couldn't.. But I'd share soon probably on my next post ( discovered easy steps on how to do that Bantu knots out on my relaxed hair).. 

Today I will literally be begging you to please STOP wearing these(pictures below) Guys don't think its Sexy.. I mean there's TRENDS and then there's TRASH. stop looking like the Other "T" In an attempt to look trendy, a lot of women have followed the latest fashion Wrongly.. because an outfit looks good on a celebrity or your friend doesn’t mean it will look good on you..

#OPINION POLL AT WHAT AGE SHOULD A CHILD USE WEAVON?

During festive seasons, it is very difficult to guess the age of girls. Their Hairdo, Make Up and Dress sense makes them look a whole lot more mature than they actually are. 

The dilemma now is WHEN IS THE RIGHT AGE FOR A CHILD TO USE WEAVON / ATTACHMENT?

While certain parents believe that there is nothing wrong in using attachments/weavons in making their children beautiful for special occasions, there are those who think doing that will spoil the child and open them to being materialistic and too artificial.

WHATS YOUR TAKE ON THE ISSUE???

SEX- WHY SOME "CHRISTIAN SISTERS" Will NEVER Get Married

Check This Out, Thank Me Later!!!

Recently I was having a chat with a personal confidant, about the Ladies of nowadays. And then I remembered some thoughts I had while listening to Bishop TD Jakes.
When Samson left his Home land (Church), to pick Delilah (UnChurched) as a Wife, He must have seen something good in her that Girls in his Home side didn't have. Something strong enough that after each work day, He could only find comfort by laying his Head on her laps.

Here are my thoughts on why some "Sisters" may find it difficult to say "I DO".

SEXUAL NAIVETY: SEX before marriage is a NO-NO and I support those who support it; but being completely ignorant about SEXUAL matters is a bad idea. SEX in itself is a gift to humanity from God, and MEN tend to love it the most. As a Lady, its important you are well informed about SEX. Looking Sexy, Sex Styles, Best Time to Have Sex, Where to Have Sex and stuffs like that. Knowing these things is NOT a Sin, rather its a preparatory process. It helps you get prepared for marriage. 90% of MEN love sex, so a man is most likely attracted to that SISTER that he can foresee a beautiful sexual experience with. (Many couples are dying silent because of sexual issues)

IGNORANCE OF WORLD MATTERS:
Today's world is quite challenging, MEN want more than a wife. What they want is a PARTNER! Someone that they can plan a future with. Knowing how to Pray & Fast is good, Knowing how to recite Scriptures and dissect them is admirable, but a Woman that cannot Contribute Mentally to her Husband's Business/ Career is a Liability. As you spend time reading your bible, ensure you listening to Local & Foreign News, ensure you read about Financial matters, Ensure you learn something New that would make you a Valuable asset.

INABILITY TO COOK:
The way to most men's heart is FOOD! Many Ladies DON'T KNOW HOW TO COOK! Honestly! Back in the days, with just a few spices, Our Mothers can create delicacies that the whole house will enjoy. Today, give a 25 year old lady 5k, and she will cook something that dogs will reject. Learn the Art of Cooking. By Cooking Books, Watch Food Channels on TV, Experiment in the Kitchen... For Heaven's sake... Do All You Humanly Can to be  better cook. If you cook good, no matter how flirty your husband may be... He Will Always Come Back Home!

There is no Curse on your Head! Enough of the Midnight Deliverance Vigils! Enough of Moving from One Prophet to another! Apply these little secrets I've told  you, and you will see different men from around the world looking for your hand in MARRIAGE.

TIGHT & LEGGINGS WAHALA...

   

Tight in the days of our mothers are worn under a garment or Skirt. Now it has been turned into fashion; u will see girls walking with ordinary tight, then walking with ordinary tight was plain madness/insanity- No addition, no subtraction.

Forward to this generation of Nigerian babes… they walk up and down the community with extremely tight tights. Is it Madness? Especially this common Leopard Skin a.k.a A*hawo Tight.

There is fashion made for Tight i.e wearing a long shirt covering the bum bum.

Nowadays girls wear it with extremely short tops. Girls that wear them are mostly girls with fat bum bum.

The question is… are they advertising themselves or what? And when guys look or star at their Ukwu… they will be shouting… “Y u dey luk me like that” or “Go look ur sister or ur mama”. Is it the Guys fault or the chick?

If it was in the days of our mothers…No space go remain for YABA LEFT again… the street go dey full of mad women.

Naija babes abeg mind your fashion. Cos the way you dress is the way u will be addressed.

.... By: AnnaBel