#RELATIONSHIP How an Asaba Girl Used Me as a Child

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At age 15 or so... I traveled from Lagos to Asaba just to find a girl I used to "Love" in my street. After spending all my little savings on transport and getting a gift for her, I called her and told her I was in Asaba. She couldn't believe it. After about 2hrs of waiting, she met me at an eatery. I gave her the gift (#700 perfume), then Bought her Fried Rice & Chicken (#500). Off course I couldn't afford to Buy for myself. With all these attention, I was surprised when she said... Mike, I need to go now. My aunt gave me some clothes to wash. I was about to protest when she reminded me that AM NoT HER BF and that she likes me as JUST A FRIEND. With the Money Gone! Pain Felt, Risk Taken and Everything... I knew I Had to LET GO! LET GO OF THE ONLY GIRL I EVER "LOVED".

Almost 15 years after... I see young people in that same situation... Being in "LOVE" with someone who doesn't value you as much as you value them. You beg them to CALL/TEXT you! You beg them to Pick your calls! You beg them to visit you or Beg to Visit them! You beg them to Send Pics! You beg them to TALK to you about their Feelings, pains, ambitions and stuffs! Practically... You BEG them for everything!!! And the number one excuse they give is "Am BUSY"! My friend, this is 2016! Its time to CUT OFF such ties. Keep your emotions in CHECK and let Common Sense Take Over! No one is ever too BUSY for anything or anyone that brings Joy, Pleasure or Money. Love is no longer the most important ingredient for a successful relationship... Rather RESPECT, LOYALTY & COMMUNICATION. There is NO vacuum in life. Once you Let Go, there would always be someone to replace that person. Don't live your life hoping that ONE DAY this person is gonna come around. *most times, they never do*. You are Beautifully and Wonderfully made! You are an epitome of charm and Grace! Anyone who cannot see that needs to see an Optician! You are Valuable! Treat yourself in that light & watch as Kings & Queens would come knocking on your door.

RELATIONSHIP

Relationship is very broad just like a huge tree with many branches. Relationship can help build your life when you keep it healthy. A healthy relationship at times might be difficult and hard to keep because it’s all about giving and taking between you and your partner. When you look at the outcome you will be compel to give it all your efforts to make it work out.

A person who is stingy in emotions that wants all the  loving and caring from his/her partner without reciprocating anything in return will end up paddling a canoe to no destination. That relationship will become weak and tends to break up in a matter of time. In every Relationship the word SHARE is very important in demonstration towards that relationship so that it can become stronger and long lasting.

SOME TIPS ON HOW TO KEEP A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

-        * Learn to be a good listener to your partner

-        * Forgiveness is very prominent in a relationship

-        * Share at all times your period of trials and happiness with your partner

-        * Dedicate your time for your partner

-        * Trust and understanding should be the host of your relationship

-        * Develop a good communication skills with your partner

-        *Try to always open up to your partner i.e no secret should be kept

       between you and your partner.

-        *Never leave serious issues unattended to.

     

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