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February is a month of LOVE, and election of  course; and in the season of Love lies endless possibilities!

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Creative Ways Christian Couples can Spend Valentine

Maybe till Jesus comes, the DEBATE about  Christians Celebrating or Not Celebrating Valentine’s Day will continue; but this time, we want to focus on… Simple ways a Christian Can Celebrate Valentine’s Day. 

      1. BUY YOUR PARTNER A UNIQUE GIFT: Well, I know many of us already have the mindset of buying Gifts; however, make a switch this time.

INTERVIEW: One-On-One With DJ ROCKER

If you’ve  been in Agbara for a while, and a constant Party Rocker; the name Dj ROCKER must ring a bell!

Trumpet PR team had the priviledge of having a one on one no hold barred interview with one of Agbara most famous DJ.

Excerpts below:

TPR: Who is DJ ROCKER

DJ ROCKER:  My birth name is Riliwan 

TOP PLACES TO SPEND VALENTINE's DAY IN AGBARA

February is always a month of Love, well and elections of course *winks*; however, no matter what comes up in the month of February; St Valentine’s day always seems to be the most attractive to young people.  Below, are list of places where you can have a perfect Valenties’s day with your Loved One(s).

 

a.     DE’OASIS HOTEL & SUITES: In some Quarters,

Movie Review: The Greatest Showman

Of late, Marvel Studios have kinda dominated the movie industries with many fictional stories, Avengers, Black Panther e.t.c; although they are quite entertaining & sometimes hilarious, one may have to dig deep down to find the LESSONS in such movies. 

The Greatest Showman is a movie set on a completely different path. Quickly, I would give you 7 reasons why every Entrepreneur needs to see this movie.

1. HUGH JACKMAN: Usually when you hear the name, the Claws, anger and everything Wolverine will pop into mind; well, in this movie, we saw that there are other sides to him. In this movie,

#Stories Tales of a Luverboy Prt 5 (+18)

Peter: Hello, good afternoon & Happy Sunday.

Cynthia: Hello Peter, how are you doing?

Peter: Feeling surprised Just got better as I heard your voice. Didn’t know you remember my name?

Cynthia: Haba! How can I forget the guy that helped me in killing the boredom of that quack mc at Chizoba’s (The Bride) wedding? (Chuckles)

Peter: Laughing I had warned Obinna (The Groom) not to use the guy o! That his Igbotic accent is stronger than GP Tank, but Obi will not listen, he said the guy was a professional from the east recommended by his wife’s parents.

Cynthia: Damn…well, guess there wont be a next time to get a professional Lagos Based MC

Peter: Hopefully not o!

Cynthia: Amen to that!

Peter: So, what are you plans for the evening?

Cynthia: Well, nothing much, except for constant torment from this daughter of eve called Sandra looking at me with her big okporlo eye (receives a playful shove from Sandra)

Peter: ahhahhaahhhahaa… Can I be your Angel and rescue you from her claws? Maybe we could go see a movie or hangout in KFC?

Cynthia: hmmm, Peter, I don’t really know about that, I don’t know you that much…

Peter: The more reason we should see… don’t you think?

Cynthia: well, yes… I guess

Peter: Ok, here is the deal, just join me to watch a movie; I’d ensure you get back to the hostel before 7pm. Pleaseeee?

Cynthia: Ok.

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This is unbelievable!!! When I decided to take the wine before calling Cynthia, I needed to be tipsy so I can tell her how annoyed I felt with her. I had made up my mind to tell her my mind, afterwhich I’d just delete her number… instant. But then, this was way more than I expected. She sounded friendly, engaging and witty, just like when I first saw her at the Wedding.

I took out a Blue Jean, and a Red Polio Shirt, and just dropped it by the sofa, we had agreed to meet there by 4pm, so I had to get myself ready before my crazy guys (Tunde & Edwin) show up.

Before I could say ghen ghen… dem boiz have show!

Omo! See as everywhere neattttt! E be like say this guy dey expect babe o! Tunde said as he stood by the entrance trying to pull off his boots. For whereeee, this Pope cannot be expecting a woman jire. Maybe naaa House Fellowship e dey plan for. I’m sure dem don make am Home Care Leader. Edwind responded. There is Hope when you have only Tunde as your friend, but adding Edwind just makes the situation hopeless! Their combination is just disaster.

Una no go ever Change! Tunde… Your Case I understand, naaa near Zoo dem born you, and the true Identity of your papa, we no know, so, I understand when you dey think like this… but you Edwin, your parents are both well respected individuals in the church, having a Mother that is a Prophetess, and a Prophet for a father in Cherubim & Seraphim suppose make you dey think like human being… but naaa lie. You decide to become BLACK sheep for your family! Its not everytime that you must allow your thinking pattern be in alignment with your BLAAAAK skin colour naaaa. (I was soooooo happy as I stroke them erh).

Oga cool down jire, naaa our body you dey get power. You sabi comedy why you no go comed for Stand Up Nigeria abi naa AY Live. Wetin you cook jire? Tunde asked as he strolled towards the kitchen. Edwin was already seated tuning through the stations, as well as watching the highlights of the matches played already.

Guys, am sorry I wont be joining y’all for today’s match. Gatto be somewhere else by 4pm. Where uncle? Where you dey go where go warrant you to abandon your real guys? Edwin asked looking surprised. Well, remember that girl I was chatting with? The one at Obi’s Wedding? Yesss! Yessss! I remember the babe, I bin dey eye am sef before you go follow am dey talk; you naaa baaadddt guy o! u just dey use this your gentle-fine boy-pastor look dey take deceive girls abi? Tunde jumped in, after returning from the Kitchen.  So, which hotel are you meeting her? Edwin asked, wanting to know more. Omo make una leave me joor! I have a meeting abi naa date for 4pm, that’s all I can tell you guys for now. I told them as I prepared to leave the room. Anyhow sha… Just buy better come for us. Tunde shouted as I was closing the gate outside.

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Hipppppppppyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!! CYNTHIA has finally seen somebori sheee likes! Cynthia has a boyfriend! Cynthia has a Boyfriend! Sandra just kept shouting, screaming & singing cross the room. Aunty sibi calm down naaa! Why u get pepper body like this? First HE IS NOT MY BOYFIREND. I am just being civil. I felt bad for ignoring his chat the other time, so, I just had to play nice. Cynthia, please stop deceiving yourself, you are like a sister to me… I KNOW YOU. This is your LOOK OF LOVE; you like the guy any other thing you say na scam.

Well, Sandra, everyone is entitled to their own Opinion… Na your own be that. Ok, Ive heard you Cynthia, now tell me… Are you going to go on a Date with Peter or Not?

Well… Well…     (to be continued next week)

#Stories Tales Of A Luverboy (+18) Prt. 2

continued from last week post....Blah bla bla... Beautiful was the next thing I heard behind me. Although I didn't hear all the person said, I just knew instinctively that it was my Mr. Mysterious Voice *Chai, I am calling 'My' already* issorit! I replied with the Classic Line... Stop flattering me.

We had a long chat outside, as though we had known for such a long time. After which He asked for my number. To be sure I wasn't pulling his legs, He dialed my number instanta.

#EventALERT COUPLES RETREAT- LETS PLAY

Love is like a plant… Water it, it flourishes, Ignore it… Its withers.

This is one knowledge that has led Krystal Gold – Health & Wellness Group to organize a one day Couples retreat tagged “LET’S PLAY” on Mon the 29th  of May 2017 @ De Square Hall, Petedo, Agbara Ogun State; starting from 11am.

According to its organizers, the event is specially meant for couples to take a day out and treat themselves to a healthy and beautiful outing, such that they can renew the love they’ve always shared which in turn would transcend in raising healthy, loving and responsible kids.  

They had come to discover that the pressures of work and trying to earn their daily bread can cause couples to be too busy for the family and sometimes end up losing their family in pursuit of wealth.

This event is going to bring a PAUSE to the rush. Couples games, exquisite foods, Drinks, music and more have been lined up for Couples who pick their tickets on time.

For Sponsorship, Ticket Enquiry or Questions, Kindly call 08161250729, 08120196723

When I get married erh, this is a kinda of event my wife and I would not miss at all. *smiles*

#RELATIONSHIP How an Asaba Girl Used Me as a Child

Check This Out, Thank Me Later!!!

#RelationshipMatters

At age 15 or so... I traveled from Lagos to Asaba just to find a girl I used to "Love" in my street. After spending all my little savings on transport and getting a gift for her, I called her and told her I was in Asaba. She couldn't believe it. After about 2hrs of waiting, she met me at an eatery. I gave her the gift (#700 perfume), then Bought her Fried Rice & Chicken (#500). Off course I couldn't afford to Buy for myself. With all these attention, I was surprised when she said... Mike, I need to go now. My aunt gave me some clothes to wash. I was about to protest when she reminded me that AM NoT HER BF and that she likes me as JUST A FRIEND. With the Money Gone! Pain Felt, Risk Taken and Everything... I knew I Had to LET GO! LET GO OF THE ONLY GIRL I EVER "LOVED".

Almost 15 years after... I see young people in that same situation... Being in "LOVE" with someone who doesn't value you as much as you value them. You beg them to CALL/TEXT you! You beg them to Pick your calls! You beg them to visit you or Beg to Visit them! You beg them to Send Pics! You beg them to TALK to you about their Feelings, pains, ambitions and stuffs! Practically... You BEG them for everything!!! And the number one excuse they give is "Am BUSY"! My friend, this is 2016! Its time to CUT OFF such ties. Keep your emotions in CHECK and let Common Sense Take Over! No one is ever too BUSY for anything or anyone that brings Joy, Pleasure or Money. Love is no longer the most important ingredient for a successful relationship... Rather RESPECT, LOYALTY & COMMUNICATION. There is NO vacuum in life. Once you Let Go, there would always be someone to replace that person. Don't live your life hoping that ONE DAY this person is gonna come around. *most times, they never do*. You are Beautifully and Wonderfully made! You are an epitome of charm and Grace! Anyone who cannot see that needs to see an Optician! You are Valuable! Treat yourself in that light & watch as Kings & Queens would come knocking on your door.

RELATIONSHIP

Relationship is very broad just like a huge tree with many branches. Relationship can help build your life when you keep it healthy. A healthy relationship at times might be difficult and hard to keep because it’s all about giving and taking between you and your partner. When you look at the outcome you will be compel to give it all your efforts to make it work out.

A person who is stingy in emotions that wants all the  loving and caring from his/her partner without reciprocating anything in return will end up paddling a canoe to no destination. That relationship will become weak and tends to break up in a matter of time. In every Relationship the word SHARE is very important in demonstration towards that relationship so that it can become stronger and long lasting.

SOME TIPS ON HOW TO KEEP A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

-        * Learn to be a good listener to your partner

-        * Forgiveness is very prominent in a relationship

-        * Share at all times your period of trials and happiness with your partner

-        * Dedicate your time for your partner

-        * Trust and understanding should be the host of your relationship

-        * Develop a good communication skills with your partner

-        *Try to always open up to your partner i.e no secret should be kept

       between you and your partner.

-        *Never leave serious issues unattended to.

     

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#InspireSunday: Overcoming the Monster Called FEAR

One of the oldest and most natural feelings in man is fear. Fear can be described as a feeling of danger from something or someone. It is an acknowledgement of a potential harm to one's being. In our world today, fear is one thing that prevents people from living their lives to the fullest. It prevents us from trying.

One battle that every successful person you know today had to fight and overcome was the battle against fear. If you can win this battle; life would be much easier.

There are a few ways I think we can overcome Fear.

1. Be mindful of what you hear/read: Man was born as a tabular raza... meaning: Empty Slate. Experiences and information makes us who we are; therefore your level of fear is determined by the kind of things you hear and listen to constantly.

Practical Example: Illuminati! Yes. Some hearts beat at the mention of the name, others just think about Satan and darkness; the fact is this, whether it is real or not. It's not my (your) business. All we should care about is that excellence and hard work pays. Whether you want to be a star or a successful business man or politician, when you apply the right principles, you will definitely succeed (abi Dangote na illuminati?). Reading about such things or watching movies about such issues does nothing but put fear in your spirit.

2. Believe in yourself:

At one point or the other in a man's life, one may think that he is not good enough. After trying for a long while, we are tempted to give up because we believe that we can't do it. The fact that a person fixes nail on the wall does not mean he is a carpenter. Yes, you have tried and failed, but that doesn't mean you are a failure. Actually, failing is a stage of the success chain. If you don't fail at a stage, you may never be successful; and if you see yourself as a failure then Success is far from your doorstep. Our creator did not create us to fail in life. Come to think of it, your creator knew you can succeed at a time like this that's why you are alive in this generation. Don't you think it’s wrong for your creator to believe in you while you don't believe yourself?

To win the battle against fear and take charge of your life, you must believe in yourself and keep trying.

3. It’s a mirage:

I guess on Facebook and some social sites, you might have come across certain pictures that become different when you look at them from a different perspective. That's what happens with fear also. From a perspective, you think that that issue is insurmountable; it may look undefeatable, but always remember, before a problem ever arises, the solution has been made. There is a solution to that issue; all you need to do is look at it from a different dimension. Leave the box you are in, think outside and you'd find that the solution is right before your eyes.

Conclusively, fear in itself is not wrong, but yielding to it would shortchange you. Be very careful about the things you read and hear. Nowadays, I'm very cautious of the news I take into my heart, Yes it’s good to be informed, but is better to be less informed about good news than more informed about bad ones. Bad news sells faster, but the fact is that it only breeds fear in the human soul. You are not a failure, if you were; you would have 'failed' from birth.

If you can overcome death by being alive today, why can’t you overcome that challenge that is serving as a stumbling block in your life? When you believe in yourself, people would believe in you. The only thing that is real in your life is your SUCCESS. Every other thing is a mirage, fake, and an illusion. The challenges you see are to test your desire and determination.

Fear stops only those that want to be stopped. Arise from your fear, and be the great man your creator made you to be.

Have a Great Week Ahead!!!

NOT EVERY RELATIONSHIP MUST LEAD TO MARRIAGE!!!

Dating! Marriage! & Family!

I love you; you love me, the next thing… We are in love! Who tell you? Recently, I was chatting with a girl who told me that she is not ready to be with any guy that was not ready for marriage. I asked her, how old are you? She replied 18 and immediately I shook my head in dismay.

Our world is, moving so fast and we are gradually losing our ability to use our common sense, especially in relationships. How can you know a guy or girl that is ready to settle down without spending time with such a person? Haven’t you noticed that it’s the girls who seem to be most careful in their selection that turns out to be in a non-functioning relationship? This is because the more you think you know about relationship the less you truly know.

Yes, I’ve not forgotten my key topic which is the African Home, but we must begin to correct foundational errors if we are to hope for a better home in the future.

As humans we are created to need somebody, that’s why YOU are not alone in this world, hence the term RELATIONSHIP. The kind of relationship we have with our family, friends, colleagues, neighbors and even enemies determine how happy we would be in life. That’s why at every point in time; we must review our relationships to know which is beneficial to us or parasitic to our well being.

That said; let’s talk about the everyday “Boy like Girl, Girl like Boy” relationship (for now sha). There are certain things we need to straighten up if we are to enjoy a lasting and fulfilled relationship.

YOUR DREAM GUY/GIRL IS NOT REAL: 

Cinderella, Pocahontas, Barbie, and Snow White… bla bla blah… these are all fairytales. Don’t always expect your story to start or end up like theirs. Face the real life and live in the present. There are certain relationships that are never planned for, some even start with both parties antagonizing each other, only for them to later realize that that is their means of showing affection. Learn to appreciate people for who they are. An individual may have so many attributes you don’t like; but sometimes, the one little thing he is good at may just be the key to your lifetime happiness. The dream person may be perfect in the dream, but in reality, you’d discover that his/her perfection makes you feel imperfect in all you do.  It’s good to aim for perfection in all you do, but never forget that no one is perfect but God.

TIME IS A NON-NEGOTIABLE VALUE:

Don’t know the amount of relationship books you’ve read in time past, but know this for certain… The place of TIME cannot be substituted for anything in a relationship. The essence of relationship is to understand an individual properly. From the outside, you may have a hunch about someone’s personality or character, but until you get closer to such person, you may never know for certain who that person is or can be? Never be in a hurry to conclude about a person because as humans we can be very deceptive (especially guyz*I’m an exception sha, ask Yvonne Nelson*). The Europeans we are trying to copy hardly have a functioning relationship because they are too quick to love. Remember that the quicker you fall in love, the quicker it is to also fall out of love.

NOT EVERY RELATIONSHIP MUST LEAD TO MARRIAGE;

Yes! I’m still sane and I aint a flirt like R.kelly… This is an erroneous notion that most sharp bad guyz....           
                                                                                                                              ( to be continued next week )