Recently I was having a chat with a personal confidant, about the Ladies of nowadays. And then I remembered some thoughts I had while listening to Bishop TD Jakes.
When Samson left his Home land (Church), to pick Delilah (UnChurched) as a Wife, He must have seen something good in her that Girls in his Home side didn't have. Something strong enough that after each work day, He could only find comfort by laying his Head on her laps.
Here are my thoughts on why some "Sisters" may find it difficult to say "I DO".
SEXUAL NAIVETY: SEX before marriage is a NO-NO and I support those who support it; but being completely ignorant about SEXUAL matters is a bad idea. SEX in itself is a gift to humanity from God, and MEN tend to love it the most. As a Lady, its important you are well informed about SEX. Looking Sexy, Sex Styles, Best Time to Have Sex, Where to Have Sex and stuffs like that. Knowing these things is NOT a Sin, rather its a preparatory process. It helps you get prepared for marriage. 90% of MEN love sex, so a man is most likely attracted to that SISTER that he can foresee a beautiful sexual experience with. (Many couples are dying silent because of sexual issues)
IGNORANCE OF WORLD MATTERS:
Today's world is quite challenging, MEN want more than a wife. What they want is a PARTNER! Someone that they can plan a future with. Knowing how to Pray & Fast is good, Knowing how to recite Scriptures and dissect them is admirable, but a Woman that cannot Contribute Mentally to her Husband's Business/ Career is a Liability. As you spend time reading your bible, ensure you listening to Local & Foreign News, ensure you read about Financial matters, Ensure you learn something New that would make you a Valuable asset.
INABILITY TO COOK:
The way to most men's heart is FOOD! Many Ladies DON'T KNOW HOW TO COOK! Honestly! Back in the days, with just a few spices, Our Mothers can create delicacies that the whole house will enjoy. Today, give a 25 year old lady 5k, and she will cook something that dogs will reject. Learn the Art of Cooking. By Cooking Books, Watch Food Channels on TV, Experiment in the Kitchen... For Heaven's sake... Do All You Humanly Can to be better cook. If you cook good, no matter how flirty your husband may be... He Will Always Come Back Home!
There is no Curse on your Head! Enough of the Midnight Deliverance Vigils! Enough of Moving from One Prophet to another! Apply these little secrets I've told you, and you will see different men from around the world looking for your hand in MARRIAGE.
