#RELATIONSHIP How an Asaba Girl Used Me as a Child

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#RelationshipMatters

At age 15 or so... I traveled from Lagos to Asaba just to find a girl I used to "Love" in my street. After spending all my little savings on transport and getting a gift for her, I called her and told her I was in Asaba. She couldn't believe it. After about 2hrs of waiting, she met me at an eatery. I gave her the gift (#700 perfume), then Bought her Fried Rice & Chicken (#500). Off course I couldn't afford to Buy for myself. With all these attention, I was surprised when she said... Mike, I need to go now. My aunt gave me some clothes to wash. I was about to protest when she reminded me that AM NoT HER BF and that she likes me as JUST A FRIEND. With the Money Gone! Pain Felt, Risk Taken and Everything... I knew I Had to LET GO! LET GO OF THE ONLY GIRL I EVER "LOVED".

Almost 15 years after... I see young people in that same situation... Being in "LOVE" with someone who doesn't value you as much as you value them. You beg them to CALL/TEXT you! You beg them to Pick your calls! You beg them to visit you or Beg to Visit them! You beg them to Send Pics! You beg them to TALK to you about their Feelings, pains, ambitions and stuffs! Practically... You BEG them for everything!!! And the number one excuse they give is "Am BUSY"! My friend, this is 2016! Its time to CUT OFF such ties. Keep your emotions in CHECK and let Common Sense Take Over! No one is ever too BUSY for anything or anyone that brings Joy, Pleasure or Money. Love is no longer the most important ingredient for a successful relationship... Rather RESPECT, LOYALTY & COMMUNICATION. There is NO vacuum in life. Once you Let Go, there would always be someone to replace that person. Don't live your life hoping that ONE DAY this person is gonna come around. *most times, they never do*. You are Beautifully and Wonderfully made! You are an epitome of charm and Grace! Anyone who cannot see that needs to see an Optician! You are Valuable! Treat yourself in that light & watch as Kings & Queens would come knocking on your door.

#WhatIsTHIS!!!???

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If a WOMAN can dress like this in Pubic... Why should we expect something different from our girls?

SEX- WHY SOME "CHRISTIAN SISTERS" Will NEVER Get Married

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Recently I was having a chat with a personal confidant, about the Ladies of nowadays. And then I remembered some thoughts I had while listening to Bishop TD Jakes.
When Samson left his Home land (Church), to pick Delilah (UnChurched) as a Wife, He must have seen something good in her that Girls in his Home side didn't have. Something strong enough that after each work day, He could only find comfort by laying his Head on her laps.

Here are my thoughts on why some "Sisters" may find it difficult to say "I DO".

SEXUAL NAIVETY: SEX before marriage is a NO-NO and I support those who support it; but being completely ignorant about SEXUAL matters is a bad idea. SEX in itself is a gift to humanity from God, and MEN tend to love it the most. As a Lady, its important you are well informed about SEX. Looking Sexy, Sex Styles, Best Time to Have Sex, Where to Have Sex and stuffs like that. Knowing these things is NOT a Sin, rather its a preparatory process. It helps you get prepared for marriage. 90% of MEN love sex, so a man is most likely attracted to that SISTER that he can foresee a beautiful sexual experience with. (Many couples are dying silent because of sexual issues)

IGNORANCE OF WORLD MATTERS:
Today's world is quite challenging, MEN want more than a wife. What they want is a PARTNER! Someone that they can plan a future with. Knowing how to Pray & Fast is good, Knowing how to recite Scriptures and dissect them is admirable, but a Woman that cannot Contribute Mentally to her Husband's Business/ Career is a Liability. As you spend time reading your bible, ensure you listening to Local & Foreign News, ensure you read about Financial matters, Ensure you learn something New that would make you a Valuable asset.

INABILITY TO COOK:
The way to most men's heart is FOOD! Many Ladies DON'T KNOW HOW TO COOK! Honestly! Back in the days, with just a few spices, Our Mothers can create delicacies that the whole house will enjoy. Today, give a 25 year old lady 5k, and she will cook something that dogs will reject. Learn the Art of Cooking. By Cooking Books, Watch Food Channels on TV, Experiment in the Kitchen... For Heaven's sake... Do All You Humanly Can to be  better cook. If you cook good, no matter how flirty your husband may be... He Will Always Come Back Home!

There is no Curse on your Head! Enough of the Midnight Deliverance Vigils! Enough of Moving from One Prophet to another! Apply these little secrets I've told  you, and you will see different men from around the world looking for your hand in MARRIAGE.

#BeInspired POSITIONING

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As a Milan fan, and a football fan in general... I have come to see certain trends in football that make too much sense in real life.
1. Since Messi came into the spotlight, he has NEVER changed club. In One Club, He has achieved everything (except world Cup glory) any player can think of. BARCELONA helped HiM mature just as he has helped the team win numerous trophies . 

2. C.Ronaldo made a name for himself in Man U; but until he MOVED to Real Madrid, he didn't really dominate the world. In Madrid, He grew and has become one of the only players on earth on par with Messi.

Certain players (Shevchenko, Torres,Ballack,) succeed in One Club, but become failures ONCE they MOVE to another club.
Certain players (Ozil, Sanchez, Suarez, Ibrahimovic, Toure) succeed in a particular club and move to another club to achieve MORE success.

Lesson... Every person must know how to POSITION his/herself rightly. The fact that everyone is travelling abroad doesn't mean YOU will succeed there. Additionally, if you discover that where you are and have been is not favouring you in terms of growth/Value, its important you think of MOVING.

In All, Allow the Holy Spirit guild you in all your life decisions.

by: Airhunuoje Michael

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What does Timi Dakolo, TY Bello and Samuel Clem have in common???

Listen to this Inspiring song from Samuel Clem- RCCG's Nigerian Shift 1st Runner Up (2015). The Beat is Dope...  The Lyrics is heart touching...  The Voice... Outta this World.

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